When it comes to dating and relationships, astrology can help a lot. It can pinpoint to you exactly where the cracks in the lines appear which mark your relationship with someone else. Here, we will talk about Aquarians alone – the often difficult to handle and leaves quickly squad. But there is always more than meets the eye. An Aquarian might be a hard nut to crack. Yet, here we have outlined some basic things you can adopt if you want to build a healthy relationship with an Aquarius.
1. Don’t Pressurize Your Aquarius Partner
It’s needless to say that being representative of the water-bearer, Aquarians crave space like fish needs water. They don’t like it when you become too dependent on them. They need their space. Sometimes that can be too much, sometimes too little. But it’s a necessity to them, none the same. However, Aquarian men don’t need as much space as Aquarian women do. When you’re Aquarius partner feels like you’re being clingy with them, give them some time on their own. They will appreciate that a lot.
2. Be Straightforward About Your Emotions
Don’t hide any emotions or thoughts from your Aquarian partner. Just be straight with them about everything, from day one. They are genuinely sympathetic people but only when you let them know what you’re going through and let them be there for you. Don’t mistake them to be selfish. They just tend to be somewhat closed and inattentive but if you simply tell them your issues, your Aquarius partner will move mountains just to be there for you.
3. Avoid Complaining and Drama
Your Aquarius partner will make sure they do all that’s in their power to help you out of difficult times. However, if you keep on complaining about life and relationships and everything in between, there will come a point when they will form a deaf ear to you and not care anymore. They don’t like people who keep on whining about their issues instead of being practical and solving them.
4. Acknowledge Their Uniqueness
Aquarians are often creative, sensitive and tender people with loads of quirks and unique habits. When you acknowledge those habits and accept your Aquarius partner for who they are, it will make them happy in a way you won’t even realize. Being unique in a world constantly trying to change you is hard so when others appreciate you for it, of course it feels good.
5. Be Flexible
Aquarians work very hard. Perhaps harder than others…or so they may seem to think. They have a busy schedule. Try to be flexible with the busy routine of your Aquarius partner. When they see you blending in nicely to their schedule and mood, they will put in their best too in the relationship. They respect those who don’t look at their own schedule for making time for them.
6. Be a Realist, Not a Hopeless Romantic
Romance, though a dominant factor in relationships, isn’t much of a favorite thing for an Aquarian. They like to keep their feet on the ground, not their heads in the cloud. Reality sounds better to them than romance. Even if it’s Valentine’s Day or an anniversary, keep the romance to a minimum. Your Aquarius partner will appreciate that more than being fazed by extreme expressions of romance.
7. Be Yourself
Aquarians appreciate it when you’re being your own self with them. It does not matter the sort of flaws you might possess, Aquarians know better than to judge you or bully you for something like that, something that is innately present in you. A certain rawness and originality in you will attract your Aquarius partner more than anything else. In a world that is much too fake, Aquarians crave originality. So when they find it in their partner, they tend to make it and the relationship last.
8. Avoid Being Too Reserved
Some people like mysterious personalities, the ones that are like a closed book. Not Aquarians. Being open with your Aquarius partner will do more benefit to you than being reserved. They don’t like to figure others out much. Instead, they prefer others to be open to them and share things with them. If your Aquarius partner tells you stuff yet you still remain closed to them in a way then eventually, they will notice it and it will hit them like a punch. When they themselves are open to you, they would like you to be open to them too.
9. Don’t Complicate Things
Aquarians don’t like it when people tend to complicate simple things. Life is already complex enough. So when someone comes along and weave larger webs in the bigger web of life, Aquarians don’t like that. Take things as they come and keep it simple with your Aquarius partner.